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I remember similar experiences where I listened to a lot of rock or metal bands, but I had a girlfriend who didn't like them. She considered them bad influences because she grew up in an environment with a strong Christian influence. However, I managed to handle the situation and explain to her that the lyrics of those songs addressed reflective themes or expressed the personal experiences of the artists. Gradually, he began to notice the differences.

In terms of rhythm and musical progressions, she was more into other genres such as salsa, electronic music or ballads; while I was into rock and extreme or heavy metal. Fortunately, this did not become a problem in the long run, as we both recognized the creative value of musical artists.

I firmly believe that the creative effort artists make to communicate what is going on in the world is often underestimated. We should not limit ourselves to musical biases, but appreciate the quality and depth of their compositions.

After all, this musical difference was not something we were too concerned about in the long run. My former partner came to understand the importance of valuing and appreciating artistic work beyond our individual preferences.

As the popular saying goes in my country: "To taste, the colors". Ultimately, everyone has their own musical tastes and that is a natural and interesting part of our human diversity.



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Relationships are about give and take and sometimes the balance leans one way or the other a little more; it's normal. I think what's important is that each person maintains their own identity rather than losing it to the other and having likes and dislikes that don't always align is part of that.

Thanks for your comment.

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