RE: ɴᴇᴍᴇsɪs ᴏғ sᴇᴛʙᴀᴄᴋs

WOW, I think she is right.
Also, a bit of less HIVE time is good as well.

Making plans is nice, perhaps it gives structure and all, but so many plans dont turn out as you thought it'll be, which then leads to disappointment.

When I was young, I was kinda living in the future, always thinking where I wanted to be. Over time, I lost that future look, and started to live much more in the moment. At the same time I delt with setbacks, I accept them much better to when I was young. That helps a lot when plans are not working out. Added to that, I generally take a positive approach, a solving 'problems'. aproach. Something I had to learn as well, to apply correctly.

Hope you find the rest, you'll be able to live more in the moment, you'll be able to deal with plans that turns out to be different.