RE: Lean on and be happy.

Oh this is such a shame and I feel for the poor lady. I remember my mother telling me when I was a child that there is always someone worse off than you. So I never saw the need to grumble or moan.
I am usually the shoulder to cry on or to listen to a rant.
Interesting about bottling up things, people need to vent their frustrations.

..and living is becoming tedious

You know where I always am Becky...