RE: The date

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A lot of communication is done on phone/text so starting dates from there makes sense. Even I was doing that as a teenager though it was all over internet as mobiles weren't ubiquitous enough for everyone to have one til I was well into uni XD

Your simple dates sound really nice. I have beenn on a couple of extravagent ones and they're novel but I definitely like the simple ones more XD And lately we haven't been on any at all x_x



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I remember the days before text messaging and mobile phones fondly.

Hmm, no dates for a while you guys? Maybe a simple little outing would be good, where would you go and what would you do if it was possible?

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We do try to cram in beach or hikes when we can on the weekends but that hasn't happened for a while mostly due to weather and partly due to my nocturnal habits (ideally I would go to bed sometime between 1 and 3am and wake up around lunchtime, but I'm still to this day forced on a diurnal schedule because mine is too inconvenient for everyone else). The rest of the week comprises of poor J occasionally making an attempt ("do you wanna come walk the dogga?") and me rejecting because I'm trying to work on so many things at once and our work schedules are on opposite ends of the day (he has normal full time hours but adjusted so that he starts earlier in the morning and finishes earlier in the afternoon, and all but one of my shifts are after school hours going over dinner time).

We're pretty boring so beach and hikes and museum and art gallery etc type trips are the things we like to do. Though he'll only do the coffee thing at a coffee shop under duress because he's a tightarse XD

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We do try to cram in beach or hikes when we can on the weekends

Call them dates and you're good to go. Lol.

nocturnal habits

Try some different nocturnal habits...you're not a bloody possum...or are you?

We're pretty boring so beach and hikes and museum and art gallery

These are not boring nutbag! 😁

We all move to our own rhythm and schedules I guess. I don't need to preach to you about the positive reasons for taking a little time out and making things happen, the dates or whatever one wants to call them you're a smart girl possum possum-girl and know what works for you and the J-man so keep doing that, making it work, and...*get that tightarse spending some coin at the coffee shop with his possum-girl!

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Possum-girl XD I am going to have to draw that now aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh.

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You better bloody show me!

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It will (probably) get posted though will be after Wednesday the way things are going x_x

I have my usual massive backlog but it's getting bumped, and I probably have to rejig schedules again anyway aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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You need a schedule...for your schedules.

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LoL XD

I'm worried I might need to make it a bit tighter and I don't function well with tight schedules x_x I don't even like loose ones but at least I get most of the things done that way aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh.

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Hmm, that's a conundrum although if you scheduled time to think through the benefits of schedules before you scheduled in a time to work on your schedule you may find some benefits to scheduling some scheduled scheduling time.

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My brain just bluescreened XD

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Alt Ctrl Delete

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No response, might have to hard boot.

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A smack on the backside perhaps? I've heard it works sometimes.

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Works when I don't have a headache (which happens when brain is stack overflowing which is way too often atm x_x) XD

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