Threetunetuesday - Songs I wanted to share with a grieving friend.

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Hello to all the music lovers in Hive; I used to great happy Tuesday every time I shared my three tunes here, yet today was a gloomy day.
Our day here in our dorm, we started the usual routine, waking up early and preparing to go to work. All is well, but only I thought!
I was in the bathroom (it was a shared toilet) when I heard one of my housemates/officemates crying hysterically. I thought there was an emergency and she might need help, so I finished taking a bath as fast as possible. Their room was near, so I checked on her; she was still talking to someone on her phone while crying. I could hardly understand what she was saying aside from the word Daddy and bring him to the hospital. Her father was already old, so I thought something had happened to him. But wait wait; she also calls her husband the same! Sad to say, YES, it was her better half! Her brother says they are trying to wake him, but he is still unresponsive. We did pray that her husband would recover, but when she arrived home, she did inform us that he didn't make it. Based on the medical report, he was dead for hours. I can't help but feel sad about her. Their kids were still young, the oldest was 12, and the youngest was 2yrs old and had some special medical condition. Financially they are already struggling, and now? What will happen? She was left alone! Even while writing this, I could still hear her anguish cries!

Then these songs play while I am listening to some songs on YouTube.


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Happy Together by The Turtles

This reminds me of their relationship after being married for twelve years. They are happy despite all the challenges thrown at them; they surpass it, even during the pandemic when both of them were unable to work for months.

Visiting Hours - Ed Sheeran


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I wish this for her as the death was so sudden that they weren't able to bid goodbye. Imagine talking to your beloved before sleeping and waking up the next day with the news of his death. I couldn't imagine the pain!

Stay Strong - Danny Gokey
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I know the pain is unbearable, and she might blame herself for not being there. I even thought that if I was on her foot, I might slowly lose my sanity now. However, she needs to be strong for their kids who need her. They are still young! It might be hard, but I hope she feels better soon!

And these are my #threetunetuesday for this week, and if you wish to join, here are the rules of @ablaze

The jist is as follows
Every Tuesday I'm going to share 3 songs which I like to listen to and I invite your feedback in the comments below. Better still, why not have a blast of your own Three Tune Tuesday and mention me in the post and I'll come and find the post and upvote it. If you could also use #ttt or #threetunetuesday tags that would be great. It'll be a sweet way for us all to discover new music. You'll also be in with a chance of winning the prize - more on that later.

Thanks for reading!

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So sorry as you know Inday to hear this.
Yes not being able to say goodbye would be such a shocker. A very appropriate set of tunes though.

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Oo it was so painful to think of!

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It's so sudden! I can't imagine the pain she had to go through.
These songs are making me more emotional..

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Oo it was! Like last night they were talking pa! Until now I can still clearly visualize her while crying and kulang na lng magkisikisi

We are all gloomy and some even cried kanina sa office!
It was a sad news!

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I just hope she can get through this pain..

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Hay sana and she need too!

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OMG. Condolence to the bereaved family. That is so shocking, really. We can lose someone we love in just a snap. 😕

I do not know that song of Ed, but love Ed Sheeran's vibe!

!PIZZA

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Oo imagine Ji, Ang bunso nila may autism pa and weekly Ang therapy ..🥹

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Condolences and praying for their family 🙏😔 Your songs will help remind her to be strong and grieve. If she needs mental health support, I know free consultations 🤗

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Oh thank you!
I will see ,.will be going to wake tomorrow..
Will check if how she is coping up

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Thank you for these tunes :) I made my day brighter!

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That is really sad. Too hard when someone we love suddenly leaves without saying goodbye. I hope and pray your friend will remain strong...

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How sad, Lhes! One is never prepared to lose a loved one, and in such a sudden way is horrible.
I am so sorry for your friend. I hope she has the strength to carry on for herself and her children.

!LUV

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Oh it was so hard for her considering their youngest has weekly therapy (autistic), like financially and emotionally.

Does your country have that belief like pagpag as we called. It was practiced not to go straight to your house from the wake . And other supertitious ...

Cause the other month a Mom's officemate died, (cause of death the same, find her unconscious)

Last week I posted about an officemate who lost his father with the same case.

And now this! Might be a coincidence but I can't help but feel 😬😬..

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Yes, it is distressing. Even if you are not superstitious. And your friend's husband was young? I have known recently of a couple of cases of adults in their 40s and 50s who have passed away just like that. They didn't just wake up. Who knows if this has anything to do with Covid.

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His husband is only 41 and healthy so the death was shocking!
Both of them? omg do they have kids?

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One of them had grown-up children in their early 20s. Yep, it's so shocking. I'm really sorry for your friend.

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Their kids were still young, the oldest was 12, and the youngest was 2yrs old and had some special medical condition. Financially they are already struggling, and now? What will happen? She was left alone! Even while writing this, I could still hear her anguish cries!

Oh god, that is so heart breaking, it would have been bad enough if it was her father, but her husband, so heart breaking, my heart goes out to her and her kids. Life can be very unfair at times.

Thanks for sharing your thoughtful songs for #ttt

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