LOVE IS WEIRD (ENG-ESP)

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Love is such a beautiful emotion that pushes a person to be concerned about those they care about. So many times we find ourselves in this relationship where at one point we are loved so much by our partners and the next minute we seem like something else before them. The strong emotions they feel towards us seem to be all gone in a twinkle of an eye.

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At this point we are scared of our choices of the ones our heart has fallen for because it's almost impossible to let them go. And when we get an opportunity to be with them again, we don't miss accepting them back into our lives only for them to leave again. Since love is one emotion that is hard to control, at this point we feel so heartbroken and we keep wishing everything was different and those who we love will love us back.

Sadly it's already a thing that we hardly ever get lucky to love those who love us, most times it's always a love triangle and it takes us so much time to see those who are truly meant for us. Now I understand why love is weird, you can hardly ever predict who you will end up loving. Some really interesting cases is when you end up loving the one person you always wholeheartedly reject his or her feelings all the time.

Thinking about how love can be so weird, I remember a song by Astrid when she sang a song that portrayed the picture of a love that has time and moments. You should listen to the song I'm sure them you'd understand better what I'm trying to say.

Astrid - Such A Boy

Letting go is supposed to hurt at this point but strangely sometimes we realize it doesn't hurt as much as we would have thought it would. In fact, we feel good to the point when we get sad for not feeling hurt even after letting go. This is another strange reason why I believe Love is weird. And thinking about something like this, I also remember another beautiful song by Astrid.

In the song, she used music to express her feeling of sadness for not feeling hurt even after she let go. And that made her wondered if she really ever loved her ex. Moving on from an Ex you loved so much is something that so many of us find so hard to do but then when we try to let go sometimes we might realize it wasn't so hard after all and by doing so we give the right one the opportunity to come feel out heart.

But it's easy to say right? Letting go is one of the hardest things to do and sometimes we even get disoriented to the point we see love as a scam and nothing genuine. We feel sad for ourselves whenever we find ourselves loving again and we feel irritated when we see others in love.

How about you listen to this song? Maybe you might relate very well with the lyrics if you've ever been in such a situation before.

Astrid - It's Ok If You Forget Me

At that point when we let go of the feelings we have for someone, sometimes we realize that makes them want us even more. They feel jealous when they see how well we are holding out and that makes them feel so hurt for letting us go. So many times they try to hide their feeling of jealousy and regret but then it's a good thing because it might make us develop that emotion again for them. At the point when we get to see how much they are hurting after letting us go, we feel happy and loved.

The truth is most times that's what we really want, we want to see them regret ever making the choice of letting us go and seeing how much they are hurt brings us this satisfaction. Oh, how weird love is. Now I think it's official that love is indeed weird but then it's the most beautiful emotion ever and I enjoy reflecting on it every now and then.

I'm wondering if anyone related well with this content, if you did then you must have had an experience or you genuinely read thoroughly. So for that, I'd leave you with the last song also by Astrid.

Astrid - Hurts So Good

Even as I share with you one of the most beautiful emotion, I'm also using this opportunity to participate in the three tunes Tuesday #ttt initiated by @ablaze. It's been a while I did and I'm happy I could participate in the first one for the year.

Happy new year to the #emotionsandfeelings community, I'm so happy to leave my first post to the community for the year. I'm looking forward to sharing more emotions and feelings contents this year, so look out for it!

Please note, all the songs shared are not mine, I got them from YouTube and this is me just sharing some interesting songs on Hive and with you 🥰.

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El amor es una emoción tan hermosa que empuja a una persona a preocuparse por sus seres queridos. Muchas veces nos encontramos en esta relación en la que en un momento nuestra pareja nos ama mucho y al minuto siguiente parecemos otra cosa ante ellos. Las fuertes emociones que sienten hacia nosotros parecen desaparecer en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.

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En este punto tenemos miedo de elegir a aquellos de quienes nuestro corazón se ha enamorado porque es casi imposible dejarlos ir. Y cuando tenemos la oportunidad de estar con ellos nuevamente, no dejamos de aceptarlos nuevamente en nuestras vidas solo para que se vayan nuevamente. Dado que el amor es una emoción difícil de controlar, en este punto nos sentimos tan desconsolados y seguimos deseando que todo fuera diferente y que aquellos a quienes amamos nos amen también.

Lamentablemente, casi nunca tenemos la suerte de amar a quienes nos aman, la mayoría de las veces siempre es un triángulo amoroso y nos lleva mucho tiempo ver a quienes realmente son para nosotros. Ahora entiendo por qué el amor es extraño: casi nunca puedes predecir a quién terminarás amando. Algunos casos realmente interesantes son cuando terminas amando a la única persona a la que siempre rechazas de todo corazón sus sentimientos todo el tiempo.

Pensando en lo extraño que puede ser el amor, recuerdo una canción de Astrid cuando cantaba una canción que retrataba la imagen de un amor que tiene tiempo y momentos. Deberías escuchar la canción, estoy seguro de que entenderás mejor lo que intento decir.

Astrid - Qué chico

Se supone que dejar ir duele en este punto, pero extrañamente a veces nos damos cuenta de que no duele tanto como hubiéramos pensado. De hecho, nos sentimos bien hasta el punto de entristecernos por no sentirnos heridos incluso después de dejarlo ir. Ésta es otra extraña razón por la que creo que el amor es extraño. Y pensando en algo así, también recuerdo otra canción preciosa de Astrid.

En la canción, usó la música para expresar su sentimiento de tristeza por no sentirse herida incluso después de soltarse. Y eso la hizo preguntarse si realmente alguna vez amó a su ex. Dejar atrás a un ex que amabas tanto es algo que a muchos de nosotros nos resulta muy difícil de hacer, pero luego, cuando intentamos dejarlo ir, a veces podemos darnos cuenta de que, después de todo, no fue tan difícil y, al hacerlo, damos lo correcto. la oportunidad de venir a sentir de corazón.

Pero es fácil decirlo ¿verdad? Dejar ir es una de las cosas más difíciles de hacer y a veces incluso nos desorientamos hasta el punto de ver el amor como una estafa y nada genuino. Nos sentimos tristes por nosotros mismos cada vez que volvemos a amar y nos irritamos cuando vemos a otros enamorados.

¿Qué tal si escuchas esta canción? Quizás te identifiques muy bien con la letra si alguna vez has estado en una situación así antes.

Astrid - Está bien si me olvidas

En ese momento, cuando dejamos de lado los sentimientos que tenemos por alguien, a veces nos damos cuenta de que eso hace que nos desee aún más. Se sienten celosos cuando ven lo bien que estamos aguantando y eso les hace sentir muy heridos por dejarnos ir. Muchas veces intentan ocultar sus sentimientos de celos y arrepentimiento, pero luego es algo bueno porque podría hacernos desarrollar esa emoción nuevamente por ellos. En el momento en que llegamos a ver cuánto les duele después de dejarnos ir, nos sentimos felices y amados.

La verdad es que la mayoría de las veces eso es lo que realmente queremos, queremos verlos arrepentirse de haber tomado la decisión de dejarnos ir y ver cuánto están heridos nos brinda esta satisfacción. Ay que raro es el amor. Ahora creo que es oficial que el amor es realmente extraño, pero es la emoción más hermosa que existe y disfruto reflexionar sobre ello de vez en cuando.

Me pregunto si alguien se identificó bien con este contenido. Si fue así, entonces debe haber tenido una experiencia o haber leído detenidamente de verdad. Así que para eso os dejo con la última canción también de Astrid.

Mientras comparto con ustedes una de las emociones más hermosas, también aprovecho esta oportunidad para participar en los tres temas del martes #ttt iniciados por @ablaze. Hace tiempo que lo hice y estoy feliz de haber podido participar en el primero del año.

Feliz año nuevo a la comunidad #emotionsandfeelings, estoy muy feliz de dejarle mi primera publicación del año a la comunidad. Tengo muchas ganas de compartir más contenidos de emociones y sentimientos este año, ¡así que estad atentos!

Ten en cuenta que todas las canciones compartidas no son mías, las obtuve de YouTube y este soy yo, compartiendo algunas canciones interesantes en Hive y contigo .

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"LOVE IS WIERD".I just love this line. How beautifully you woven this emotion in the post. Although, it is the most beautiful emotion in this world, but its wierd. Sometimes, we can't understand it. We are in a love with some, at that time, we only think about them, care them and not doing anything which hurt them. But the phase also come, when the person we loved started hurting us. Earlier, we hurt but with the passage of time we can't feel it or I should say we became used to it. And sometimes we wait for the moment, that the person we loved should regret that why he left. So, I will quote your line, "LOVE IS WIERD."
#dreemerforlife

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Thank you sis, I'm glad you can relate this well with this piece. I also loved the phase at first when I heard it and after thinking deeply about it, this post was born.

I love your comment 🥰
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Love is complex. Arguably the most complex emotion. It is different. It is weird. Sometimes, it can be sweet. Sometimes love can be better. Mostimes, it's a combination of both.

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You are absolutely right Fave. You just sounded like a lover boy 🤧😂, just kidding you, hehe.

Thank you so much for stopping by dear Fave 🥰

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Indeed love is an emotion that we all feel and also get hurt from, I enjoyed reading from you.
#dreemerforlife

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That's right 😊. I'm glad you enjoyed reading through 🥰. Thank you for stopping by

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Pues si seguro muchos nos vamos a identificar con este tema, tan controversial y hermoso, un sentimiento que lo mismo nos derrumba hasta los abismos más profundos como también nos levanta hasta alcanzar el sol. Aunque creo que no existe fuerza para lograr su control debemos de canalizarlo de una forma saludable. Es un sentimiento raro pero sin dudas el mejor de todos. Saludos comunidad

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Así es amigo, muchas gracias por tu hermoso aporte a mi blog, realmente es tan bueno que pases por aquí 🥰

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Love is sometimes complicated. I agree with you about letting go, though it's easier said than done but we find out that we end up moving on easily.

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I couldn't agree less sis, thank you so much for your beautiful contribution 🥰

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It isn't just weird, it most times hurts, because it places one at a spot where what the other person says or does hurts them more. I for some reason, aren't ready for all that comes with loving someone, because it makes us vulnerable to the person and makes us accept or swallow some things we naturally wouldn't have but then, where is the fun if it doesn't work that way? It's an emotion that shouldn't rushed and we should be careful who we give our hurt to, to avoid getting hurt.

I enjoyed your writing.

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Hahaha, how I wish we could choose who we love, it would have been a lot easier but it doesn't work that way at all. But I do understand where you are coming from and u agree with you 😊.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving such a beautiful contribution 🥰, I'm glad you enjoyed reading through 🤍

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This is indeed a great lesson for me. All of your contents are related to me in my pasts. Until now, pain is still here and that is the reason why I let my heart close in order to save myself form hurting again. 💔

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Well, you might think you are closing your heart from loving again but that's not true, you've not just seen who will mak your heart flutter again 😌. But I'm happy it's going well though.

I'm really happy you could relate with this post 🥰. Thank you for stopping by.

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Love is indeed strange and weird. That's a really good description. Songs are a good reflection of it, too!

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