Love Life And Our Differences.

No matter how good you may be, have it in mind that you are bad in someone’s story. It is not necessarily because you’re a bad person but because you’re not just the one for that person and things may go well between you two. Also have it in mind that this does not have to do with romantic relationships alone.

My friend came all the way from her state to Lagos to see her new boyfriend who only comes to her place but she has never been to his place. This time, they already had an agreement to see in Lagos when she comes around. Sadly, he has been ignoring her calls since she got to Lagos.
The red flags were too obvious not to be noticed so she realized that the guy doesn’t love her.

In a nutshell, she was being played by the guy. It was crystal clear that he doesn’t love her. This made me remember the days when I used to suffer from heartbreaks. If I heal from one, I’d be jumping into another heartbreak. That can be very painful.

This led me to listening to “Young and Beautiful”. There are questions in the song if you’ll still love your partner when he or she is old and ugly? These days, people are nothing but users. This is why so many people are damaged and find it very hard to love people. That’s because they have been used so many times by different people.

Then, I thought of something else. What if that bad person in your story is actually not bad? What if that person is not just the one meant for you and that’s why things sometimes tend not to work out between two people. You both are never going to understand each other.
Sometimes, that person is not bad. He or she is just not meant for you.

I think this song will make you ask yourself some questions like if it is a crime to love that person you love.

This takes me back to the story of my friend, Debbie. That guy who doesn’t love Debbie may meet another woman and do all what Debbie always ask for that woman. That’s when you know someone is for you or not. You don’t really have to struggle for love. If that person is yours, you won’t really need to struggle about it or beg the person to call you. Anyone who loves you will always create time for you and want to talk to you every now and then.

Anyone who loves you will want to do anything to make you happy. Once you start to notice red flags, kindly leave the relationship. It’s not for you especially when they are red flags you cannot cope with. It’s going to be hard to leave but at the end of it all, you will have to leave or the person leaves you. If you don’t want to be dumped, act fast and I hope you find true love.